When I found out that my parents had used the money intended for my education for other purposes, I was shocked. It not only ruined my plans for the future but also led to legal consequences.
My grandmother, Marta, had always been an inspiring example for me. She broke family traditions, pursued an education, and became a doctor. She used to say, “Don’t let anyone take away your desire for knowledge.”
My mother often said that in our family, women should be mothers and wives first, not scholars. But Grandma Marta always insisted that education meant freedom.
Before she passed away, my grandmother opened savings accounts for all the women in our family to support their education. However, my parents saw this money as available funds they could use.
They assured me that the money for my education was in my account and untouched. So when Grandma passed away, I still believed that her gift would open doors to my future.
I studied diligently, never doubting that the funds for my education would always be there. But when I went to the bank to withdraw money for my first semester, I discovered that the funds were gone. The remaining amount was significantly lower than it should have been.
I contacted the bank and quickly realized that the money had been used. My parents admitted that they had spent it on my brother’s wedding. I was in shock, but my mother simply said that it was family money and that I would figure something out.
I was deeply hurt that my own parents did not respect my grandmother’s promises and failed to understand how important this education was to me. I insisted that the money was meant for my studies, not for their personal needs.
While organizing my grandmother’s belongings, I found her will, which contained an important legal provision: if the money was misused, I had the right to reclaim it.
I told my parents about the legal aspect of the situation, and they were shocked. When my lawyer informed them that I could take the matter to court, they began to resist. My mother said it would be a disgrace to the family, but I stood firm in my decision.
If you had just asked for the money, I could have helped,” I told them.
In the end, my parents returned the money, fearing the legal consequences. I was able to continue my education and earn a degree, which was not just about gaining knowledge—it was a way of life where I had control over my own goals and path.
This experience taught me that even in the most challenging situations, it’s important to stand my ground and defend my rights. I realized that despite all the difficulties, I had the power to change my life and shape my future.
