I fly quite often and over time I understood one simple thing: to feel comfortable during the flight and not cause trouble to other passengers, sometimes it’s better to arrange extra conditions in advance.
Due to the shape of my body, I sometimes feel cramped in a standard seat, and to avoid bothering my neighbor, I decided to buy two tickets right away: one window seat and the other next to it. Thanks to this, I feel more at ease and don’t disturb anyone.
During one of my recent flights, I took my seat, fastened my seatbelt, and waited for takeoff. At that moment, a woman with a child came up to me. Without asking me anything, she sat the child in the free seat next to me.
I politely explained that this seat also belongs to me, that it was purchased earlier, and added that I did it not out of whim, but out of respect for myself and others.
The woman reacted emotionally, expressing surprise: “It’s just a child!” she said. Some passengers nearby expressed the opinion that I should “give up” the seat, but I remained calm.
In such situations, it is important to maintain respect for all participants. That is why I called a flight attendant and calmly explained the situation, showing both boarding passes. I also asked to consider the possibility of finding other seats for the passenger with the child to avoid further misunderstandings.
The crew showed understanding. After a brief conversation, the situation was resolved without conflicts. As I was later told, such cases are not uncommon, and the cabin staff is ready to help find optimal solutions for all passengers.
After that, the flight went smoothly, and I felt good that I didn’t give in to pressure but also didn’t offend anyone. Later, a few people came up to express their support — it was unexpected but very kind.
Buying the second ticket was, for me, a sign of respect — for myself and others. Sometimes it’s worth reminding ourselves that personal boundaries and previously paid conditions are not whims, but a conscious choice.
