A few minutes before the wedding, I was standing by the entrance to the church, holding a letter from my mother, which I had accidentally found in the pocket of my jacket. The bride was already waiting for me in the courtyard, adjusting her wedding dress. I stood there, trying to control my emotions.
To distract myself a little, I slipped my hand into my pocket, hoping to find a mint candy that always helped me concentrate. Instead, I found an envelope. It was labeled: “My dear son, read this letter before the wedding.”
A feeling of unease swept over me. “What if this letter changes my decision?” I thought. Despite my doubts, I opened the envelope and unfolded the letter.
Dear son, today you take an important step in your life — you are creating a family. If your heart is full of love and certainty, remember my words:
Love your wife with all your heart, treat her with respect and care. Remember, sometimes appearance takes a back seat, and true beauty always lies within us.
Support her, even if she doesn’t ask for it, because women often hide their worries.
Don’t let money become the cause of arguments. Remember, happiness is not measured by wealth.
Never allow rudeness or offensive words. They hurt and can leave deep scars. Remember, only your wife should be your closest and most beloved person.
Value what you have. A family where love and understanding reign is the most precious gift. And remember: your father and I will always be by your side, supporting you.
With love, your mom.
When I finished reading the letter, I felt a lump in my throat, and my eyes filled with tears. The letter reminded me how lucky I am to have such parents.
Today, it became not only the beginning of a new chapter in my life but also a reminder that I am ready to be a protector and support for my future wife, just as my mother taught me.
